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The Sims LoveStruck News

These are my thoughts from the official Sims twitch livestream July 18, 2024
The Sims Lovestruck Official Site
Well, it’s that time again for EA to announce their newest expansion pack and show off its features to the many ravenous sims fans around the world. I myself have been craving a new EP, even though EA is about as money hungry as it gets and supporting this pay structure I believe is making The Sims worse overall. These are just my initial thoughts that might change with the release of the game. Some of the features I will be adding in this post that stood out to me should be a free update to the base game, so keep that in mind
The Good
- Eyelashes – Eyelashes are finally here! No more eyelashes that look like a black sensor bar. They have two variations for the base game and two that are exclusive for the new pack, which I am totally fine with. This is up there with arm hair and scars as bringing in some life to the create a sim feature


- Dating App – This has been long overdue, as whenever I am trying to find a spouse for my sim they are either already married or interested in the opposite sex. Adding your own image that you take with your phone is a nice touch and cuts down on the disappointment and frustration of meeting sims at a bar

- The World – Ciudad Enamorada is the new Mexican-inspired world that comes with the pack and it looks so colorful and lively. I love that the sims add in aspects of many different cultures to keep the game interesting and immersive. Keep in mind that most of the world will be decorative and not interactive which is a bummer
- Attraction options – This was introduced first in The Sims 2 Nightlife and added in The Sims 3. Huge improvement and allows you to tell a variety of stories similar to the milestones from Growing Together (It would be neat to create a gold digger who is attracted to wealth lol)
The Bad
- “Adult” Costume box – Weird to see a cartoonish looking sim making a sexy dance dressed like an eggplant
- Gen Z Heart – I am just being petty with this one. The fingers used to create the heart make it look like a mangled spider
The Ugly
- Pre Order Bonuses – Not only ugly and not necessary, but to put them behind a paywall is insulting

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The Sims 4 For Rent News

The Sims 4 For Rent recently released their gameplay trailer and I must say, I was a bit underwhelmed. This feels like an extension of City Living and not worth the price point.
A little while ago, EA announced that they would refresh some packs that exist already to update them and that is what I thought would happen to City Living. Turns out, they are locking it behind a paywall again.
There is also some controversy where people are speculating that loading the different households on the same lot will take a loading screen, which is not good at all. The Sims 2 had no loading screens when visiting sims in Apartment Life so I cannot imagine putting that in the game now

This also may be an option to go to another unit on another lot that you own, but I wouldn’t put it past EA to make us load each unit individually.
I do like the UI to manage the households in the lot as a landlord so that you can see who is where and to fill any vacancies that exist. I am hoping that there will be something similar to manage the households on eat lot to switch control whenever you please.

The Repo man looks like they are also making a comeback from previous sims games, but a bit different. The Landlord can take away items to pay for rent so that will be an interesting gameplay mechanic

Overall, we will see what the expansion pack holds when it releases on December 7th. I am not super optimistic as most packs (save for a few) have been extremely underwhelming.
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Every Day Stresses that could Easily Be Avoided

There are so many things that the government needs to improve on. The biggest ones are the everyday headaches that the general public are forced to interact with because that is the only way to do things. Here are some Examples:
- Insurance Information
- Taxes
- Unemployment
- Career Services
Why is it that when I need government assistance, it is almost impossible to get a straight answer, but when the government needs something from me, I better answer right away or I’ll be fined? I recently had to apply for CHIP assistance for my child and I was given at least 5 different phone numbers to call to get set up because no one could help me. However, I was still required to pay that bill in a week regardless of what is happening in my life. The same courtesy is not applied to every day Americans.
Unemployment is another one. I applied a month ago and have submitted dutifully every week, and have not seen a dime. I have paid into it when I was working these past 10 years, but I can’t get assistance when I need it?
It makes no sense why we have to do our own taxes when the government has that information already. If your number doesn’t match theirs, better watch out, but they won’t tell you that number: you’ll have to figure it out.
With everything going on, I’ll need to enroll in therapy from the stress and anxiety it is causing me. The irony is, I can’t get someone to help me with my medical insurance to actually pay for the damn sessions.
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Living with Solitude
There are some issues that an idle mind can create. One of those is too much dwelling on things that are going wrong in my life. However, I believe with practice, the energy coming from these worries can be used for a different purpose. But how to adjust without losing my mind?
When I was washing the dishes, I touched a smudge of peanut butter and Jelly from my daughter’s lunch and felt my skin crawl. I was over stimulated and had to walk away. I could not get outside of my own head and see the reality of what happened: some food touched my hand and I was able to wash it off right away. I suppose I could try meditating, but I think putting my thoughts to paper will help more.
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What is Life About

Life is a confusing mess of emotions and economic difficulties. I felt more introspective as of late when I started selling my blood for some extra money after I was fired out of the blue from my previous job. The predatory way employers post jobs that require a lot of experience for little pay or “side hustles” that target stay at home moms. I am here to understand why…
At many points in our lives, we come to a fork in the road both mentally or even physically that we must choose the correct path for us. This is difficult if you are having an identity crisis and cannot choose for yourself because you are not sure what you want.
This is where I am in my life. I had a baby a year ago whom I adore and love with all my heart. Going through childbirth and parenthood has changed me into a person I do not recognize, and I want to get to know them. Here are some questions I would like to ask myself and answer as fully as I can.
Questions to Ask your New Self
1. What makes you happy in your day to day life?
- I love waking up my daughter in the morning because her smile shines brighter than the sun and gets me pumped for the day ahead even if I am exhausted
- Video games that get me immersed in a fantasy world where my perspective on real life can change for the better
- My sisters arguing with each other and laughing because even though we are all different, we still find ways to make each other laugh and reminisce about our childhood
- My husband, who is my favorite person of all, coming home dancing in his scrubs thanking me for watching the baby and making dinner
2. What do you want to be when you grow up?
Even though I am 30, I still like to think that I have a lot of growing to do and a lot of time to do it. If you asked me when I was younger, I might have said a doctor when I didn’t realize the cost and time it took to get there.
Now, my dream job would be an actress even though it is not a viable way to make money. I would like my dream job to inform a more realistic career right now so writing might fit that mold because it allows me to be creative while also realistically making money for my family.
3. What is your favorite thing about your personality?
My favorite thing about myself is my sense of humor. Media and culture inform our senses of self so I can be just a combination of TV show references and jokes in Tik Tok, but I can also think on my feet fairly quickly and usually have a quip to anything that is thrown my way.
4. What are 5 things you excel at?
- Picking up new video games
- Making my friends feel better if they are down
- Making people laugh
- Googling (it’s a more important skill than people realize)
- Sharing my own feelings on a topic in a concise and coherent way
5. What are 5 things you’d like to work on?
- Being less of a procrastinator
- Active Listening
- Working out so I can have more energy
- Less impulsive thinking (I have to stop going to Wawa to get iced coffees every other day!)
- Appreciating what I have in life
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Ranking The Sims Games

Which is the Best Sims game ever?
My first Sims game was The Sims 1 when we went over to my cousin’s house to create ourselves in the sims and built a little house for all of us. These rankings are based on how fun the games are for me to play and not necessarily the features they provide. I realize that The Sims expansion packs are expensive and not accessible for everyone and I stream The Sims on Youtube if you wanted to check out sims gameplay to see if it would be a good game to get into. Enjoy my rankings!
4. The Sims 4

This comes as no surprise to anyone in the sims community who has read other rankings of the games. The Sims 4 when it was first released was an unfinished, buggy mess of a game with many missing features like pools, toddlers, and aliens. These are staples for sims games ever since The Sims 2. The game itself has been out for almost 10 years now with no new game on the horizon. Other features from previous games are also heavily paywalled and contain less features.
The building mechanic in The Sims 4 is the best it has been in previous games, however once you move in sims and try to play it falls flat. The new feature of The Sims 4 is emotions but it doesn’t work well and things like partners cheating on each other or prank calls don’t have a lasting impact on the sims’ mood.
I have played The Sims 4 extensively and have over 1500 hours on the EA App on my PC. I want to like it and give EA the benefit of the doubt, but I think they should listen to their community more and give developers the freedom to create new and exciting things
3. The Sims

This game holds a special place in my heart because it was the first sims game I played. The character creation is simple and the sims themselves are not that smart, but it allowed a young kid to create a story and control a virtual dollhouse. The base game didn’t have aging or active careers or even a lot of furniture and playing it in 2023 is difficult. My favorite expansion pack was Makin’ Magic because it brought magic and potion-making to the game.
Overall, it was a great time waster and it was fun creating characters that looked like my friends and family members. My brother still talks about how we set off fireworks inside his sims’ house and burned it to the ground. Great memories, all around!
2. The Sims 3

This game revolutionized the dollhouse model to create its own world full of different personalities and possibilities. When this was first released, there was a lot of controversy because you could only play it if you had a really good computer that could run it. That was too expensive for me so I had to make it work with my family’s old dell desktop. The game froze and stuttered and took forever to load because my PC was just ok so it was hard to make this fun. Later, we bought a new computer that ran this game like a dream and I spent hours creating families and exploring the open world.
The sims themselves got a new look and not for the better. They were less cartoonish and more uncanny valley which turned me off from the game a bit in general. Creating a sim was fun and there were many character traits and lifetime wishes to choose from. However, I loaded up the game and it looked really ugly so that part was hard to reconcile.
The features in The Sims 3 were massive and gave you more freedom than ever to expore the open map, get into relationships, hear the latest gossip in town, and see the other sims age and grow along with your own family.
This game was great for storytelling and came out with expansion packs that greatly added to this amazing installment.
1. The Sims 2

This sims game will always be the gold standard for me. When this game was released, it was such a huge improvement from the original Sims that I could not get enough. The personalities of the sims were varied, more control over character creation, much improved graphics, and added to the lore of the sims in general.
My favorite part of The Sims 2 was memories: a collection of notable and important events that happen in a sims’ life. A first kiss, moving out of a parent’s house, a fire in their home, getting married, having kids, etc. This game added many features that were missing from The Sims like aging, pregnancy, babies, toddlers, different meals, memories, etc.
This game will always hold a special place in my heart for its innovation and addictive gameplay.
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A Love Letter To Skyrim: The Wild and Free

keeps me coming back over 10 years later.
Ever since I had the capacity to form memories, I have played video games. My parents didn’t understand my passion for these fantasy worlds, but my brother did and we played them for hours a day. I also loved to play outside and climb trees because my mother’s house was next to the woods that held so many secrets and possibilities for a young child. The combination of those interests culminated into an adult who was the perfect audience for The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim.
When I went to college at 18, I didn’t bring my any of my gaming consoles and used a Mac for schoolwork that had one game on it at most because macbooks aren’t the best for video games. Once I came home for the summer, however, all bets were off and I would spent days in my mom’s basement getting lost in the magical land that Bathesda created. My first Bathesday game was Oblivion when my brother suggested the game and let me use his Xbox 360 to experience one of his favorite games at the time. I spent the first 7 hours just wandering around and looking at the amazing scenery so lovingly crafted for gamers like me. Once Skyrim was announced, I waited with baited breath for that same magic to appear once again.
Skyrim is an RPG adventure game with nordic and medieval tones that has dragons, assassins, magic, kings, queens, etc. The best part about Skyrim for me is the open world full of side quests and interesting details strewn about the towns, caverns, forests, tundras, and homes. It could be as simple as reading a letter out on a table of a local tavern threatening a debtor or an adventurer’s body right outside a cave with a book detailing what they were hoping to plunder in this very cave. As much as I love this game, there is some things that need to be said about the company that owns the franchise currently: Bathesda.
Bathesda is known for creating and releasing games in a buggy state. Bugs and glitches are features in video games that do not work quite right or something looks a little off. Some examples would be a character that looks like they are swimming that are on dry land or a wolly mammoth shooting into the sky unexpectedly. Both of those examples I have seen in Skyrim many times.
Mammoth Falling from the sky Another game Bathesday released a few years ago was Fallout 76 that was full of bugs and not optimized for online play with friends. My husband and I had several instances where we could not see each other’s characters and that made it hard to play together.
It’s difficult to pinpoint exactly why Skyrim is so special and why people are still playing it over 10 years later. It is a combination, I think, of environment, excellent music, characters, dialog, and tiny details that set Skyrim apart from all the rest.
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Rating Sims 4 Expansion Packs
This is my master list of Sims 4 expansion packs and will do individual lists for stuff packs, game packs, and kits. I am ranking them Yes or No depending on whether or not I think it is worth adding to your game!
The Sims 4: Growing Together

- Release Date: March 16, 2023
- Price: $40.00
- Concept: Adds additional furniture, CAS items, and family gameplay
As a family simmer, I really enjoyed playing this expansion because it adds one of my favorite things from The Sims 2: memories. You get a memory for things like starting a new job, having a baby, loosing your first tooth, and more! The price made me baulk a little because some things in this expansion I think should be in the base game. For example, you cannot have a changing table or have those aforementioned memories unless you own this pack.
Treehouses are also something people have been longing for as well as a better high chair (still waiting with baited breath) and I think this pack does a lot of things correctly. I enjoyed the new community lot and the new neighborhood mostly because EA partnered with creators in the community to build their lots.
The pack is buggy and a great example is having kids learning to ride a bike. More than once they biked up the stairs and clipped in and out of the walls of the house riding their bike. Some of the infant milestones where they learn new things were also not registering at certain points. When the game first released, I was having an issue where my sims kept picking up infants from sleep or the play mat and dropping them on the ground
Verdict: Yes, if you can afford the hefty price tag
The Sims 4: High School Years

- Release Date: July 28, 2022
- Price: $40.00
- Concept: The Sims 4 teens have been left by the wayside for awhile so this pack aims to add new things for teens to enjoy like clothing, hairstyles, jobs, after school activities, prom, thrift stores, and an active high school where you can travel with your teen sims to class
This pack was one that I was not expecting, but I bought it anyway to see if there were some new and cool gameplay mechanics. However, this game not only disappointed me, but it also made my game a bit worse.
First, the good. I really like the new furniture and clothing for teen sims. Although I am a millennial and do not understand what i fashionable now, I can definitely see where teens would love the fashion. I also love the new career options like streamer and fashion influencer as it adds a bit of the 21st century to gaming.
The rest of the pack seems lackluster and half-baked. The high school that came with the pack is really ugly and empty, the classes were boring, and if I get one more notification about social bunny, I am going to lose it. The pack is also super glitchy in terms of the prom and class performance so much so that it is not worth the headache to even go to class with them.
Verdict: No
The Sims 4: Cottage Living

- Release Date: July 22, 2021
- Price: $40.00
- Concept: Time to move to the country in this expansion where you can look after chickens, cows, and large crops at your home. They added features like small quests for the townsfolk of the new Henford On Bagley neighborhood and grocery deliveries. New festivals in this neighborhood for farm animals and their produce.
I absolutely love this pack! The new oversized crops, chickens, llamas, cows, simple living lot trait (where you cannot cook meals unless you have all the ingredients), side quests, new neighborhood, build/buy, CAS, and more! I could not live the cottage core life in my actual life so it is perfect to live out those dreams in the sims.
This pack isn’t just for looks either, I believe the simple living trait really adds some challenge to your gameplay and it reminds me of the Sims 2 where you had to frantically order groceries when your fridge runs out and your pregnant sim is next to death.
Verdict: Absolutely Yes
The Sims 4: Snowy Escape

- Release Date: November 12, 2020
- Price: $40.00
- Concept: Travel to a Japanese-inspired world for festivals, vending machines, and slopes as your sims rock climb, snow board, sled, and hike your way through snow covered mountains.
This pack was a hit or miss for me personally. I love the CAS and build/buy items, but the gameplay has left me wanting. Lifestyles are new in this pack and when you do this over and over again, it builds up the type of lifestyle you live and affects your sims’ moodlets. It takes a bit too long to build up and it doesn’t really affect gameplay significantly.
The Snowboarding reminds me of The Sims 1 Vacation, but that pack also came with mountains and beach vacations. This is just another instance of EA breaking up packs to, I assume, get more money from simmers.
Verdict: No (probably)
The Sims 4: Eco Lifestyle

- Release Date: June 4, 2020
- Price: $40.00
- Concept: Dive into dumpsters in a new world where the focus is sustainability or industrial revolution! Create items with the fabricator using recycled materials, create fizzy sodas with fruit, change your neighborhood’s eco footprint, and more! This is for all the hippies out there
This expansion couldn’t have come at a better time than 2020 during the Pandemic. People were re-evaluating if they actually wanted to keep living in the city with a bunch of people or start a farm in Kansas. I myself starting composting around this time when I bought my home because I was thinking more sustainably.
This pack was underwhelming in many ways and surprisingly integral in some key areas of gameplay. The eco footprint means nothing in a neighborhood and it is near impossible to make a giant smoke city. Neighborhood ordinances are a huge nuisance in my game so I definitely just turned them off. Lastly, the career is not as hands-on and I would have liked and ironically hands-off for a career that deals in the environment.
There are a some key features and build/buy mode items that I use still in most of my builds. One of the best is the horizontal gardens where you can plant two seeds and even keep them indoors so they can bloom during any season. I really enjoyed making those fizzy sodas and it looked really cool when they came out in their own little six pack. I didn’t delve too much into fabrication but the furniture actually looked super nice. Water collectors, solar panels, and generators are an interesting mechanic especially when you create an off-the-grid lot where you can’t use anything that requires water or electricity. Lastly, dumpster diving for furniture, food, etc was a great addition to the game and a fun surprise when I found something good.
Verdict: Yes
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The Void

That is what we call my mom’s couch whenever we visit. The reason is that everyone who sits on it to watch some TV gets immediately exhausted and in a sort of trance. Usually it is a family bonding experience as my sisters put on a reality TV show and we drag all the rich snobs that complain about unimportant nonsense. The couch is also, I think, a metaphor for life.
The “object in motion, stays in motion” physics rule could not be more true for humans. Now that we have become more sedentary, it is more difficult to get up and start moving. I have always been the type of person who didn’t leave my house much and have one hobby: video games. The issue comes in when that extends to other parts of my life like taking care of my daughter or working from home. Mustering the will to get up and do things is tougher than I thought it was.
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Back At It Again

Well, I came back to the blog! I haven’t been feeling like myself for months now and even though I am still searching for my dream job, I feel better. My daughter is standing on her own sometimes now and I am enjoying my time at home more. I felt like writing again mostly because putting my thoughts out there on paper feels pretty darn good. I go to my local library and check out some neat recipe books which has taught me the ultimate way to fry chicken. I just have to keep going even if I am tired or sad because life doesn’t stop for you at any point.
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